Hey I'm Stephanie, it's so nice to meet you!

I'm an unconventional coach who desires sexual freedom, deeper connection, and real education about sex in the world. My mission is to help you feel free to express yourself sexually and infuse pleasure into every part of your life, in fact I believe it's the only way to live.


My Story

I used to feel so frustrated all the time that I would never get my needs met because I didn’t know what my desires were, which meant no matter how much i talked to my partner I still wasn’t getting what I wanted.

I felt like every inch of my body was starving to get my needs met.

I felt like I was the only one that had this issue, and that everyone else had it figured out!

The turning point for me was realizing that I wasn't alone and realizing how starved so many people actually are.  Community helped me so much in being able to be vulnerable with like minded people and be part of a tribe!

Now I’m experiencing epic pleasure, bursting with energy, and deeper intimacy. I’m able to communicate with my lover about everything - not just sex! - Because I learned so much about my desires and communication tools. Now I help others transform their love life.


Stephanie & random facts

  • I have a major travel bug and have lived in: London, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Denver, Salt Lake City, Juneau, and St. Thomas
  • Orgasmic Meditation is a part of my everyday life
  • I can have an orgasm without even being touched
  • I'm happily sexually fluid
  • I am a vegan and macrobiotic enthusiast
  • I am a Mastery graduate from Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts

The 5 Erotic Blueprints™ (Created by Jaiya) are the ways each of us are wired sexually to experience touch and turn on.  I will help guide you in discovering which one or more erotic types you fall into both mentally and somatically (in your body, because the body never lies!)  You might be really surprised to discover that there is a world of different types of touch other than straight forward sexual touch that we are taught is the societal norm.

Read more about the Erotic Blueprints™ here.

Before I started learning about my erotic wiring I was in a sexless marriage and I was miserable.  Someone once told me that sex is 10% of a good marriage and 90% of a bad one i.e. sex is like air, not important until you're not getting any.

This gave me my wake up call to start learning about this very important part of life.  I always just assumed that the sex would come naturally and get better with time.  I was wrong - for real.  We are not taught anything growing up in this society about the pleasure of an abundant sexual life, and I'm saying it's time we break that tradition.  

I hope that my journey from struggling with my sex life to knowing what turns me on and experiencing epic pleasure can provide an example of how normal sexual issues are, and that learning about the Erotic Blueprints™ can help rewire your sex life providing increased intimacy and connection.