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I am on a mission to infuse more passion and pleasure into your life. I offer one-on-one coaching designed to discover desires, to heal, and to empower connection within a beautiful container for you to explore.
Before I started coaching with Stephanie I didn't feel seen and I didn't know what I desired.
My relationship was good, but I knew I wanted to push my boundaries and that there was more out there for me to discover.
The turning point for me was learning my Erotic Blueprint and my partner's. I realized we're not the same and realized there are different ways people receive pleasure. The major needle mover for me was learning to "speak the blueprints" and learning to communicate in my partner's unique language.
Now I understand my partner on a deeper level because I know the way he likes to communicate, to be heard and spoken to - AND vice versa. I feel more connected and I am seen and honored for my desires!
Before I was feeling very lost and anxious. I felt chaos surrounding me, and felt extremely guilty about focusing on my pleasure.
The major needle movers for me were learning the Blueprints first and foremost, and then the tools of putting pleasure first, breath-work, and the healing meditation - which was a game changer.
Now I am feeling relaxed, more present, expanded, and like it is just the beginning of so much more.
At the beginning I was feeling urgency that I needed to jump into sex right away. Based on expectations and cultural norms I thought something was wrong if we weren't getting down quickly. I was pressuring myself to make significant shifts fast.
While completing the program I learned about the 5 phases of sexuality. I realized I needed to go through Healing and Resting phases, and that I was basically in denial that there was still a lot that I needed to process from my past.
Now, I'm holding my masculine energy, I'm present, and I have full acceptance with where I'm at on my journey.
Before Stephanie’s coaching program I felt desperate, confused, exhausted, and not in a good place emotionally. My husband and I were having issues and I thought I would take this class to help us as a couple. Turns out, it helped me more than anything.
My needle mover in this whole process was when I realized I needed to start listening to MY wants and needs and not give them up for my partner. This came up for me when we learned about all the Blueprints. For the most part I knew what I liked, but now I know even more, which will only help me out in the future.
A lot has happened in my life in the last 8 weeks of this class. I got let go from my job, started a new job, and then moved out of my apartment to an apartment by myself, because my husband and I are separating for a bit. It was a lot of huge changes to my life and this class helped me move forward.
Exploring all of the Blueprints showed me how to take care of what I need and want, not only sexually, but emotionally. I am also (slowly) learning to accept myself as I am in my current position and I feel like I am finally learning what I want out of life in general.
Now I am focusing on what I want, what I need, and how to love myself through self discovery. I am going to explore things that I have not gotten to before in many aspects, especially sexually. I still have a little bug in the back of my mind about wanting to explore women, so now I have the chance to do so! I am excited for all the possibilities that are now open to me!
Before I was feeling very sexually charged and feeling ready to experiment. I desperately wanted a deeper Tantric type connection. I wanted to get back to enjoying my sexual freedom and my ‘fucking for fun’ lifestyle.
The major turning points were learning my Erotic Blueprint, doing the shadow meditations, and seeing myself in a different light, which gave me a completely different view of the the relationship I was in (which I have ended.)
My motto now is ‘be where you are’, in a healing/resting phase, with very low interest in sex or sexual activities. I’m feeling the need to dig deeper into self love. I’m still wanting a deep Tantric style relationship, but I’m more aware of some of the barriers that are keeping me from attracting that type of person into my life.
Curious? Schedule your Free 30 Minute Passionate Possibilities Consultation with me.
During this session we will:
Dive deep into your unique erotic desires and uncover what it is that you want most in your love life
Brainstorm ways to get to those desires
Take a look at what's blocking you and holding you back
Discover the framework that will spark transformation, fulfillment and connection in your love life
*NOTE THESE ARE PACIFIC STANDARD TIMES
The 5 Erotic Blueprints™, created by Jaiya, are the ways each of us are wired sexually to experience touch and turn on. I will help guide you in discovering which one or more erotic types you fall into both mentally and physically. To discover healing, expansion and love.