To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you on exactly what to do to increase pleasure and intimacy in their love lives. That defining moment in my life happened in 2015.

I was in a sexless marriage and I didn’t know what my desires were let alone how to communicate them..

At the time I was trying to decide to either get the spark back into my relationship or get a divorce..

I was struggling with the fear of judgement from other people if I got divorced. I was struggling with the fear of the unknown. I felt stuck..

And I was getting more and more paralyzed in indecision..

The final straw was when I finally read a book that had been sitting on my shelf for a couple of years called Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts by Regena Thomashauer. One of the chapters is called Monogamy: Time for a new model? I came to a question – Do you think it would be fun to be totally monogamous? – Immediately I felt a pit in my stomach, my heart sank and I said a resounding NO.

Then I read a lot of other options that I had never considered – Do you think it would be fun to be partially monogamous and have a few fun flings? Do you think it would be fun to have a series of passionate affairs over a lifetime? Would you like a man to support you? Would you like to support a man? How about several lovers at a time? Whoa these are options? Like, we’re allowed to create our own relationships according to our own terms? MIND BLOWN.

Then the bottom fell out from under me when I finally decided to move into my own apartment and my visa to live in the UK got denied. I was living in London at the time and had to transfer from a spousal visa to my own visa and that did not end up working out.

I had been living in London for 2 years, my whole life was there, and I was planning to continue living it. Now on top of the separation from my husband I was going to have to move cities as well.

As you can imagine, I was in bad shape and desperate, but I wasn’t ready to give up on my dream of figuring out who I was, what I desired in relationship, and being in a relationship that fulfilled me..

Then I discovered my mentor, Jaiya when I saw her speaking about the Erotic Blueprints at a Mama Gena’s class I was taking in NYC..

At that point, everything changed!

I finally figured out how to:

· Fulfill, heal and expand my sexuality. Which meant I couldn’t settle for anything less than a partner who knew their desires and could meet me in an ever expanding relationship. I wasn’t ready to give up on my dream of growing in a juicy relationship of exploration with a partner.

· Somatically feel my emotions unlocking the key to sexual health and vitality and ORGASMS WITH A PARTNER!

· Heal unconscious beliefs to find my pleasure and my confidence.

Because I discovered the Erotic Blueprints at that Mama Gena class I was taking in NYC., I was able to:

· Find my truth that I desired to create my own open relationship paradigm.

· Learn my sex language and how I liked to receive pleasure and then be able to communicate that to my partner

· Find the most honest, open, expansive, sexual, juicy relationship of my dreams.

Now I’m living in my dream. I was not willing to give up on figuring out who I was, what I desired in relationship, and being in a relationship that fulfilled me. Now I never have to worry about being in a sexless marriage. The truth is, I craved connection but I didn’t know how to even ask for what I desired. I had no voice.

Learning my sex language and healing my blocks that I was holding onto has given me a voice, has made sex so pleasurable, has increased my orgasms, and made my current relationship filled with extreme depth and expansiveness.

And that’s why I’m so passionate to share with you “My Sex and Relationship coaching program: 90 Days To A High Vibe Love Life” so you can experience who you truly are, discover your true desires for YOUR relationship, and be in one that fulfills you too!

I cleaned up my past and started teaching couples and singles how they can do the same: I watched their love lives improve too! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other couples and singles connect more in the bedroom increasing their pleasure and overall satisfaction in their relationship.

Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: I lived my dream of spreading sex positivity and concsious relating; and I have created 90 Days To a High Vibe Love Life™, a series of 8 sessions to discover your and your partner’s Erotic Blueprint™, learn how to nourish yourself and your partner with pleasure, how to communicate in their sex language, how to heal your erotic shadows, how to expand into other Erotic Blueprints™ and make a plan to create your dream love life.

Every couple or single looking for more intimate connection needs to apply to find your Erotic Blueprint™ Type to create deeper sexual intimacy.